A therapist (she was let go from her job) once posited that I had borderline personality disorder. Although other mental health professionals have since poo poo'd that idea, I am recently having the "I hate you! Don't leave me" grumpiness, yes yes yes we can attribute it a bit to hormones (it's ok for me to say that but not you) but usually my mood ( Read more... )

Even when I'm pissed, even when I'm annoyed, even when I desperately need comfort, and caring and a shoulder to cry on, I can't seem to stop comforting other. Even when I don't want to.

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Even when I'm pissed, even when I'm annoyed, even when I desperately need comfort, and caring and a shoulder to cry on, I can't seem to stop comforting other. Even when I don't want to.

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Recently I culled the herd so to speak. Decreased the number of folks I was dating from six to four. I thought it would be a negative, but I have found that what I wanted to happen, happened. I've fostered more significant connections with the relationships that I've kept. It is gratifying. I'm thinking that this is the way it should be. I'm still ( Read more... )

Are they important? Why do we place such emphasis on "holiday" traditions? Do they lose importance once we forget why we're doing them?

I'll be spending Christmas Eve and Christmas day with friends. Participating in their traditions. I feel like an orphan. I want to make traditions with the people I love. I don't feel like I'm welcome in the family ( Read more... )

My Mitch is NOT being deployed in March!!!!

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Ping came back home tonight around 5:30 pm. He was meowing with such gusto that I heard him from about 75 feet away. Thanks to all who kept the vigil.

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I went away and my cat got let out by a contractor working on my house. Ping never stays away for this long. I'm afraid he's hurt or dead.

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Ok I'm at the park, my travelling companion is a Disney Store cast member and is having a heck of a time using her discount because of "blackouts". Can someone tell us what the rules are for the discount because the SOP for the Disney Store isn't correct or complete.

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I was just told that I wasn't acceptable relationship material because I sleep around too much "But I'm not judging you". And because I might bring home something that would be a danger to their children. I can't decide if this is good parenting or just idiocy.

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